EFT og partnervold- kampen om et tryggere bånd - fullt
(English text below)
Instruktører: Lieven Migrode og Jef Slootmaecker
Sted: Oslo
Pris: 6000 (5000 for early birds før 1. november 2018)
Dato: 27- 28 mai 2019
Forskning viser at partnervold foregår relativt ofte, og enda oftere hos par som søker parterapi. Likevel ser det ut til at temaet ofte forblir skjult for terapeutene.
Hos mange par ser det ut til at det er underliggende, sterke, tunge og negative samspillsmønstre som ligger til grunn for volden. Disse mønsterene er en utfordring for mange terapeuter som jobber med par hvor det foregår vold. Noen ganger er imidlertid volden i paret temaet for den terapeutiske prosessen. I disse tilfellene, er det bemerkelsesverdig
at parene ønsker at vi, terapeuter, skal jobbe for et tryggere forhold hvor volden tar slutt. Hvordan kan vi tilnærme oss dette ønsket når vold ofte blir ansett som en kontraindikasjon for parterapi og EFT? Med bakgrunn i ny vitenskapelig kunnskap om partnervold, arbeider Lieven og Jef sammen for å få en bedre forståelse av dette kompliserte
relasjonsdramaet.
I dette 2- dagers kurset skisseres et teoretisk rammeverk om hvordan vi kan forstå partnervold fra et tilknytningsperspektiv. I tillegg vil det fokuseres på hvordan vi kan bruke EFT for å hjelpe disse parene til å
kommunisere bedre.
Kurset inneholder arbeid med videomateriale, rollespill, personlig trening og å skape rom for samtaler.
Om instruktørene:
Jef Slootmaeckers, sertifisert EFT terapeur og EFT veileder har jobbet 10 år med partnervold, og er spesialisert i EFT og partnervold. De siste årene har Jef holdt flere kurs i å arbeide med høyt reaktive og voldelige par. Sammen med Lieven Migrode, har han publisert flere artikler om partnervold og parterapi. Han er medlem av ICEEFT.
Lieven Migerode, sertifisert EFT veileder og trener introduserte Sue Johnsom i Belgia i anledning av “Good Enough Couple Congress i 2006. Han har publisert flere artikler om partnervold og kjærlighet. Lieven er medlem av ICEEFT.
Instruktører: Lieven Migrode og Jef Slootmaecker
Sted: Oslo
Pris: 6000 (5000 for early birds før 1. november 2018)
Dato: 27- 28 mai 2019
Forskning viser at partnervold foregår relativt ofte, og enda oftere hos par som søker parterapi. Likevel ser det ut til at temaet ofte forblir skjult for terapeutene.
Hos mange par ser det ut til at det er underliggende, sterke, tunge og negative samspillsmønstre som ligger til grunn for volden. Disse mønsterene er en utfordring for mange terapeuter som jobber med par hvor det foregår vold. Noen ganger er imidlertid volden i paret temaet for den terapeutiske prosessen. I disse tilfellene, er det bemerkelsesverdig
at parene ønsker at vi, terapeuter, skal jobbe for et tryggere forhold hvor volden tar slutt. Hvordan kan vi tilnærme oss dette ønsket når vold ofte blir ansett som en kontraindikasjon for parterapi og EFT? Med bakgrunn i ny vitenskapelig kunnskap om partnervold, arbeider Lieven og Jef sammen for å få en bedre forståelse av dette kompliserte
relasjonsdramaet.
I dette 2- dagers kurset skisseres et teoretisk rammeverk om hvordan vi kan forstå partnervold fra et tilknytningsperspektiv. I tillegg vil det fokuseres på hvordan vi kan bruke EFT for å hjelpe disse parene til å
kommunisere bedre.
Kurset inneholder arbeid med videomateriale, rollespill, personlig trening og å skape rom for samtaler.
Om instruktørene:
Jef Slootmaeckers, sertifisert EFT terapeur og EFT veileder har jobbet 10 år med partnervold, og er spesialisert i EFT og partnervold. De siste årene har Jef holdt flere kurs i å arbeide med høyt reaktive og voldelige par. Sammen med Lieven Migrode, har han publisert flere artikler om partnervold og parterapi. Han er medlem av ICEEFT.
Lieven Migerode, sertifisert EFT veileder og trener introduserte Sue Johnsom i Belgia i anledning av “Good Enough Couple Congress i 2006. Han har publisert flere artikler om partnervold og kjærlighet. Lieven er medlem av ICEEFT.
WORKSHOP: FIGHTING FOR A SAFER CONNECTION
With Jef Slootmaeckers and Lieven Migerode
Research shows that intimate partner violence is rather frequent, even more so in couples seeking couple’s therapy. However, the subject of violence often remains hidden for the therapist. Or due to contraindication couples seeking therapy are refused unless a primary treatment of the violence.
The vision of this workshop is that, in many couples, the underlying strong, heavy negative interaction patterns a paramount in the violence. These patterns form a challenge for many a therapist in working with these couples. However, sometimes the violence between the partners is subject of the therapeutic process. In that case it is remarkable that these couples mostly want us, therapists, to work towards a safer relationship where they can stay together and where the violence stops. How can this be approached when violence is often seen as a contraindication for couple’s therapy and EFT? Based on new scientific knowledge about intimated partner violence and their experience, Lieven and Jef worked together to come to a better understanding of this difficult relational drama.
In this workshop we outline a theoretical roadmap how we can understand intimated partner violence from an attachment focused point of view. And how we can use EFT in helping these couples to fight for a better connection. We outline specific interventions to use and discuses several important topics as assessment, de-escalations, the attachment meanings of violence, and the self of therapist.
We will work with video material, role play, personal exercise and make space for conversations.
The workshop offers a mini roadmap that can be inserted in the larger EFT map for therapy.
Ideally participants have a basic training in EFT or should read basic works so that we can build on this.
About the instructors:
Jef Slootmaeckers, certified EFT therapist, and EFT Supervisor in training have worked 10 years with partner violence. He specialized in EFT and couple violence. Over the last few years, Jef trained several teams in working with these highly reactive and violent couples. Together with Lieven Migerode he published several articles about partner violence and couple therapy. He is member of ICEEFT.
Lieven Migerode, certified EFT supervisor and trainer introduced Sue Johnson in Belgium on the occasion of the Good Enough Couple Congress in 2006. He published earlier on the subject of partner violence and love. Lieven is member, of ICEEFT .He published articles and a book on the subject of love. Migerode,L (2015). Hoe blijf je gelukkig in je relatie. Tielt: Lannoo. ( I love you: how to stay happy in your relationship)
With Jef Slootmaeckers and Lieven Migerode
Research shows that intimate partner violence is rather frequent, even more so in couples seeking couple’s therapy. However, the subject of violence often remains hidden for the therapist. Or due to contraindication couples seeking therapy are refused unless a primary treatment of the violence.
The vision of this workshop is that, in many couples, the underlying strong, heavy negative interaction patterns a paramount in the violence. These patterns form a challenge for many a therapist in working with these couples. However, sometimes the violence between the partners is subject of the therapeutic process. In that case it is remarkable that these couples mostly want us, therapists, to work towards a safer relationship where they can stay together and where the violence stops. How can this be approached when violence is often seen as a contraindication for couple’s therapy and EFT? Based on new scientific knowledge about intimated partner violence and their experience, Lieven and Jef worked together to come to a better understanding of this difficult relational drama.
In this workshop we outline a theoretical roadmap how we can understand intimated partner violence from an attachment focused point of view. And how we can use EFT in helping these couples to fight for a better connection. We outline specific interventions to use and discuses several important topics as assessment, de-escalations, the attachment meanings of violence, and the self of therapist.
We will work with video material, role play, personal exercise and make space for conversations.
The workshop offers a mini roadmap that can be inserted in the larger EFT map for therapy.
Ideally participants have a basic training in EFT or should read basic works so that we can build on this.
About the instructors:
Jef Slootmaeckers, certified EFT therapist, and EFT Supervisor in training have worked 10 years with partner violence. He specialized in EFT and couple violence. Over the last few years, Jef trained several teams in working with these highly reactive and violent couples. Together with Lieven Migerode he published several articles about partner violence and couple therapy. He is member of ICEEFT.
Lieven Migerode, certified EFT supervisor and trainer introduced Sue Johnson in Belgium on the occasion of the Good Enough Couple Congress in 2006. He published earlier on the subject of partner violence and love. Lieven is member, of ICEEFT .He published articles and a book on the subject of love. Migerode,L (2015). Hoe blijf je gelukkig in je relatie. Tielt: Lannoo. ( I love you: how to stay happy in your relationship)
